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Babysitting for twins will be easier than two children of different ages. Here are some situations you may run into, and suggestions for dealing with them.

Toy Arguments: In some houses this may not be a problem, if the parents just buy two of everything. But even if they do, there is likely to be one of the two that both children like better. Deal with this like you would any other children fighting over a toy. Do not favor one twin over the other; this will cause issues within the un-favored child.

Sibling Rivalry: In my opinion, sibling rivalry is probably tougher between twins than siblings of different ages. The best way to handle fights or an upset child as a result of labels or one not feeling as good as the other is to have each child sit down and name good things about the other. Both children will then hear good things about themselves, and is likely to feel better, and if nothing else it stops the fighting.

Twin Babies: Sitting for twin babies or toddlers is the toughest of all. Especially if neither of they can walk. If you do not feel like you can, do not try to carry both babies at once. Just be sure to secure both babies in their cribs, playpens, seats, etc before leaving them alone.